Why your 20's are the best and worst times of your life.

20's are a crucial time for all of us. We are our most beautiful and insecure all at the same time, and we sometimes don't have a clue what we're doing even when we think we know it all. There are a few things we need to understand though:

1) This is the time to work hard and make something of yourselves, you're out of the teen digits and need to start facing reality; nothing comes free. (I say this with love)

2) Be good to your body; get sleep, and eat well because I would say cut down on the drinking but lets face it; we are all going to drink in our 20's- but remember nothing good happens past 1 am and that makeup you went to bed with; yeah have fun with your breakout the next day (again said with love) so yes, be good to your body.

3) Men we are not objects; ladies men are not toys. 

4) Find something you love and go do it, because no matter what the rest say I truly believe happiness is not from money; money helps but if you are stuck in a job you hate then no amount of money can fix that. #sorrynotsorry

5) Don't use people- it comes back to haunt you.

6) Sometimes even if its hard not to be true to yourself and be who you are- just do it anyway because everyone's going to do what they're going to do eventually and you learn to let go of what you can't control.

7) Be good to people- don't burn bridges- you'll need to walk across them later.

8) Don't succumb to the pressures of getting married in your early 20's if your not ready- actually scratch that- don't get married and settle down at all if you're not ready- he or she will thank you as you won't be dragging that person through all your stress and worries.

9) If you find someone who you love being with- good and remember life is full of temptations and it may seem like you could do better- but out of all the other people in this world that person chose you- be good to each other.

10) Last but not least- enjoy these pivotal times in your life, you are only young once - yes its true, not any of the finest bot-ox in the world can slow time- love life and love you.